This is My Psychosis
Day 03 — Regardless of my current status, do I believe a person should save themself for marriage…
…well, let me answer this in two ways…[if i understood the question correctly]
One, if you are a girl, I believe you should save yourself for marriage because of the obvious and not so obvious reasons:
1.) If you’re religious, you do not want to be living in sin and burning in hell… at least, that’s the general belief…
2.) If you’re not planning to try your hand on parenting at the age of 12-21, then you shouldn’t be getting all freaky-deaky! Remember, protection works 99%…but, there’s still that 1% …don’t be fooled, in fact, be very intimidated if not, scared! Just thinking of teenage mothers and the different scenarios that are happening like abortion, adoption, neglect, child abuse etc… all because at some point, these teens are just not ready for it [responsible parenting]. Of course, there are some who do great but still, I believe that teenagers should enjoy being teenagers and young -without such huge responsibilities.
3.) If you’re into that hopeless-romantic-sweep-you-off-your-feet kind of fairytale, where you figuratively wear a chastity belt until your knight in shining armor comes and unlocks it -then you should save yourself for marriage [Just don’t be surprised if you find rust building up around that vicinity if prince charming takes too long… LOL]
On the other hand, I also believe that a girl should share these special moments with somebody who loves them and they love in return. Somebody they will forever cherish and build a life with; somebody who will protect this gift and cocoon it in a nest of love…[okay, I had to barf after typing that line…too cheesy!]
Two, if you are a guy, I believe that you should not save yourself for marriage for the obvious reason that as a woman, when I do finally get to do the hokey-pokey, I want it to be with somebody who is experienced enough to give me the time of my life. I don’t know about you guys, but I think that sounds fair, right? Yes, fumbling and groping blindly in the dark, unsure of what to do can be cute but really, why not go pro? If you’re going to save yourself, then make sure you’re saving yourself for the big leagues! LOL
However, the dilemma that is presented when it concerns my number 2 answer is the fact that if a girl saves herself for marriage, how will the guy practice?